Today
I’d like to share part of our family story through a belated Mother’s Day blog.
Not because I want to brag about my wife (although I am absolutely crazy about
her) and not because I’m a cheap skate that should have probably done more for yesterday’s
holiday (although that’s a fitting description as well), but because I’ve
observed some sweet qualities in Brittany that are pictures of the gospel.
My wife
and I came into our parenting roles in some different ways. When we first met,
she was an unmarried youth ministry worker and grad student and I was a single
father of three. While neither of us were looking to find each other, it soon
became clear that the Lord had intentionally merged our paths. As dating turned
to courtship, it became evident that her love was not just for me, but also for
the posse of three I was hanging with.
Perhaps
that’s why it has been so cool to see Brittany earn the right to be called
“mama” by our children. Without really having any say in it, I’ve always been
dad, but on their own, the kids have come to see and cherish her as their mom.
My wife stepped into the chaos of being an instant mother of three and the Lord is helping her to meet the task.
One of
the defining moments in our relationship came for us at a kiddie park one
summer evening. All five of us had loaded into a small cage on one of those
nausea-provoking rides (you know, the kind that slingshots you back and forth
while simultaneously spinning you around as if the goal is to re-create the puke
scene from Sandlot).

As I’ve
thought back on that moment on several occasions, each time I’m not only
reminded of why I treasure my wife, but I recall how deeply we’re loved by
Christ. In the hectic seasons of life, He makes Himself known and gently calls
us to look and trust upon Him. Jesus gladly enters into the muck and mire of
our chaotic mess! He loves us unconditionally and works for our good whether we
rightly respond with love and gratitude or not. He sacrificed His will for the
greater will of the Father so that through the work of the cross we might all
experience the fullness of our adoption through faith (Romans 8:14-17, Galatians 3:24-26, 4:4-6).
As I
share my heart with you today, I ask that you’d not hear me boast in my wife
but rather in the God that has so richly blessed me with her. Brittany’s words
and actions encourage me daily to look to Christ as my soul is filled with
thankfulness. May we see the gifts of creation and realize they’re pointing us
to the Creator. While a belated mother’s day card is often considered better
late than never, finding hope and a new lease on life through Christ is always…well…at
just the right time!
Proverbs 31:28-29
Her children rise up and
call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many women have done excellently,
but
you surpass them all.”
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