Can you
believe that some churches have created incentives so that children will want
to participate in their weekly programs? Evidently in these churches, elementary
students are rewarded for things such as regular attendance, bringing their
bibles, memorizing scripture, and inviting friends? I mean, really? Aren’t we
just creating another generation of entitled consumers? I know of one
particular ministry that hands out Kidz
Cash for acts similar to those I described above.
Okay, I
hope you know me well enough to have picked up on my facetious tone by now. And
if you know the church I belong to, you may have rightly guessed that I’m
referring to our children’s ministry. Believe it or not, people can actually
develop strong opinions about how attractional a ministry should be. I have
some opinions on these matters as well. Trust me, I could rant for hours about all
the rights and wrongs with the Church (notice the big C). However, today I’d
rather just tell you a cool story and let you consider some of these issues on
your own.
So what
happens when a child catches on to the purpose behind the Kidz Cash? What might happen when the regular attendance and
participation starts to mold a young heart? When the “why” behind our spiritual disciplines is expressed and understood,
what impact can that have? What happens when a child becomes engaged with a
greater vision that looks beyond oneself? Well, I think we might witness
something similar to a story I heard last week.
One of
the neat parts about being the Family Pastor of Middle School here at NBC is
that I am sandwiched between two other ministries. Since many families have
children in Wired (our middle school ministry) and Genesis Kidz and / or High School ministries, I get to meet a lot of different people and often hear some of
the awesome transformational stories that are going on in the other areas. Last
week was one of those occasions. I was able to listen to a story that I think
is worth sharing. Here is a quick summary of what I overheard.
While
there are many little trinkets and enticingly fun things a child could purchase
in our children’s store, one of our GK’s decided to buy something special for a
friend. With the Kidz Cash he had
been saving for quite a while, he purchased a Bible to give to one of his
friends that didn’t already own one. While I have no idea what the current
exchange rate is in our Kidz Store, I’m certain that even with minimal
inflation, it took some intentional planning and patient saving on the part of
this young man. Pretty cool, huh? Honestly, that’s not how I’d spend my hard
earned money.
I’m
going to guess that this little guy may not be ready to navigate his fellow
classmates down the Roman Road to Salvation and he may not always rightly
differentiate between King Saul and Saul of Tarsus, yet there are some things
that he does obviously understand. It would seem this boy knows that God loves
us and tells us so in His word. Because of this fact, there is value and wisdom
in the Bible that makes it worth sharing with others. Perhaps by reading the
scriptures, they (our friends) too will come to know this big, powerful, loving
God as well - the one who sent Jesus to stand in our place – the Savior that teaches
us how to love our neighbors and the world around us.
To be
clear, if you as an adult are needing a chance to win a Branson Getaway or
perhaps a set of steak knives in order to regularly attend church, then I think
that’s a different scenario altogether. Just as if you are still riding the
coin-operated machines out in front of the grocery store, one is appropriate
for children and the other screams “STRANGER
DANGER”!! While the beginning of this blog had you thinking about Jesus
driving the money changers out of the temple (Mark 11:15-18), I hope you are
now reminded of how Jesus says we all must come to Him and receive the kingdom
like a child (Mark 10:13-16).
The
truth is this: whether we are working as a ministry, as a friend, or as a
parent, we’d all do well to explain the purpose (the “why”) behind what we do and examine our own motives. We must also remember
that life truly is all about the Benjamins…and Bobs and Sarahs and Lucys and
Jacks and Jills and folks young and over-the-hill. You get the point. It’s not all
about us, but about making Christ known to the nations for the glory of the Father.
And how will people believe in Him whom they have not heard (Romans 10:14)? May
we be encouraged to consistently live out and share the faith we profess,
acknowledging and repenting of our own judgmental attitudes, and persistently
seek the Savior with a heart that is pure and trusting as a child.
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