For several months my family and I have been doing an
experiment… No, this is not a pyramid scheme to get you to buy in to the
program but I would love to tell you very briefly about it and what I’ve
learned. Essentially, it is giving up
specific things each month for seven months so you can learn more about
yourself and the abundance of excess in our lives (It all started with a book and now there’s a study too)!!
Courtney and I have gone through several months at this
point and have learned a ton each month, and this month has been no
exception. For the past 24 days the Berg
household has given up all media items… That’s right: Movies, TV, Music, Apps,
Yahoo News, ESPN and, outside of professional use, even: Cellphones &
Computers!! Though it most definitely
hasn’t been easy, down right awful at times (missing the BCS Championship games
and now the Super Bowl this Sunday), with only a handful of days left I’m kind
of sad that it’s drawing to a close.
I’ve come to greatly enjoy “the silence” of my home (well, after the
kids are in bed), the incredible conversations while just doing the day-to-day
errands without the radio, the fact that the kids come home and immediately
want to play a board game or shoot some hoops and “the honeymoon” period my
wife and I have found again with card games, reading together and even just
talking!!
Rereading the paragraph above I realized that just those
things could be the focus of this post:
- Turn off the TV and get on the floor with your family
- Dust off the board games (or go get a new one)
- Schedule a mandatory date night once a month
- Maybe even power down the cell phone once a week
BUT that wasn’t why I started this post… The biggest thing
that has happened this month of “no media” was my eyes being opened
AGAIN!! Ten years ago Courtney and I
made goals for our family of two: No TV in the bedroom, Leave the cellphones in
the car on dates, Buy a new board game once a month, etc. But over the past decade we lost focus and
became desensitized to the world around us!!
Many “what ifs” (what if there’s an emergency, a crisis, a disaster) in
our lives seemed to demand our constant attention and connection to technology
and not meaningful connection to each other and to our family.
So with our fast winding down I’m praying for a couple
specific things, will you join me?
- May I take a little time and evaluate where I am right now in my walk…
- May I be honest with myself and God, asking His Spirit to give me great leadership in making new boundaries (or even old forgotten ones)…
- May I set aside time for faith talks and even provide uninterrupted time so faith walks can happen with my family…
“Search me, God, and know my heart; test
me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in
me, and lead me in the way everlasting” Psalm 139: 23-24
What is one adjustment you could make in your day-to-day to open up a little more time and focus for your family!?
COME ON PEOPLE!!!
ReplyDeleteFamily night! A time that's for the most part a non negotiable on the calendar each week. It's been such a blast and I know our kids love it and look forward to it.
ReplyDeleteThanks honey!!
DeleteIts amazing what time spent without a phone. Or a conversation about what jesus did in a temple. Or a nerf game with your kids can do. I have learned this last year that life is the ultimate distraction. Ever heard the phrase "life happens"? Now ever heard it referenced after something positive or something encouraging. My goal is to directly have my life interfered with by my excessive family time or my constant singing of praise music. Or my testimonies to other about my involvement in my saviors plan for the world. Its hard an i fail daily, but i am getting better. Great article jeff. You and your family help hold heaven lamp high.
DeleteThanks Morgan!!
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