Monday, June 30, 2014
But there is grace...
Wednesday, June 25, 2014
NBHighSchool Summer Camp 2014
To prove it here is a quick 'Top 10 events from #NBHS14 so far':
10) Pastor Matt kicking off our first day!! |
9) First Tribal Competition (Dodgeball)!! |
8) Mrs. Carol Sallee leading our morning tabernacle!! |
7) Food (Steve and his posse are the best)!! |
6) Tribal 2 & 3: Kickball & Whiffleball Tournament!! |
5) Worship (Evening Tabernacle)!! |
4) Fellas Small Groups!! |
3) Ladies Small Groups!! |
2) Bottomless Snowcones!! |
1) Quiet Times!! |
This list was probably not in any specific order... But as you can see we are having a blast and we're barely halfway!! Hope to see some of our parents tonight at Family Worship Night at Camp Big Cedar, come hangout with us (Map attached below... See you between 6:30-7p)!!
It's right at a 2 hour drive, so we suggest leaving New Beginnings parking lot no later than 5p.
(South on US-75, West on I-40, South US-177 and then West on Hwy 39... You'll see the Camp Big Cedars sign right on Hwy 39, across the street from a small gas station)
Tuesday, June 24, 2014
Thanks To All Our VBS Volunteers
Our teachers were fabulous! |
Team Japan had special Spy Headbands! |
Matt leading a quick discussion or large group time-out? |
Have I mentioned how great our volunteers were? Even Craig! (jk) |
Can't do without the snow cones! |
There were many decisions made to follow Christ and many children desiring baptism as well. Now, we must do the difficult and costly follow-up as parents continue to disciple their children and teach them diligently the ways of the Lord. We are extremely careful not to manipulate children in "making a decision." But we also do not want to fail to proclaim the urgency and weightiness in their need to respond to the gospel. We desire for many children and families to come to a full saving knowledge of the truth. Therefore, we faithfully clarify and simplify communicating the work of Christ on the cross and the saving gospel message to them consistently.
Wednesday Night is Family Fun Night with bounces, snow cones, and free meals! |
Monday, June 23, 2014
"Uh, pardon me sir, but..."
No, it wasn't Sir Paul that I confronted. |
I pray we might each find a place where we can truly be known – a place where our blind spots can be identified. Oh might we learn to receive admonition from friends as what it truly is: God’s grace toward us, granting us opportunity to grow for His glory.
Friday, June 20, 2014
10 Secrets of VBS Spy Success!
Below are some top secret, high security, spy secrets.
Secret #1 This first class, top notch Spy Academy would not have been possible if it had not been for the 100+ volunteers from New Beginnings Church who gave tirelessly, served unselfishly, led and loved effectively. You know who you are, even if your secret identity has not been revealed! Most of the 100+ volunteers are not highlighted in photos below, but that does't mean that they are not appreciated nor highly influential of the young lives they assisted this week at VBS Spy Academy.
Smiling VBS 2014 Leadership Team. |
I have had conversations with several others who all agree that this job is among the most difficult in the church. Our fearless leaders faced this challenge with grit, determination, and faithfulness. VBS ran as smoothly as it ever has and these 3 were responsible to provide a memorable experience for south Tulsa families.
Tammy Butler and Becky Even |
Typically, when parent's kids grow too old for VBS, parents retire from VBS, never to return. But Becky and Tammy are not typical. They agreed to serve at VBS together and the spies were blessed.
Becky and Tammy are both school teachers during the academic year. Like all teachers, they treasure their summer for resting, relaxing and reenergizing for the next school years. Yet Becky and Tammy blessed the kids and their families by voluntarily sacrificing another week to train these kids with life changing bible truth. Thank them for setting the example for the rest of us empty nesters.Secret #4 Tracy Finch is another school teacher who voluntarily sacrificed another week of her summer. The thing we learned about Tracy this week is that she will do anything if it will bless the kids.
Tracy Finch as Agent Marsha Mallow |
Her main task this week was to provide funny and interesting "sight gags" as Madame Fluffy-pants scientist genius assistant.
She emerged on the stage in goggles, holding a rubber rat in tongs, stalking Agent ZZ with martial art threats (presumably to hone his defenses), and generally doing whatever she was asked.Tracy and her husband Scott were faithful, fun, and dependable to serve the Spy Academy.
Cheryl Plumlee as Snack's Leader |
2) Although she doesn't consider herself a polished public speaker, she grabs the mic each time the snack rotation changes and does a terrific job explaining the secret meaning to the creative snack she prepared for them hour earlier. Wow!
Thank you Cheryl for putting up with Charlie, for serving faithfully as VBS snack Czar, and for blessing our kids for generations.
Japanese Dojo of Ninja Spies |
1) Joel is a life long preacher's kids who has been manhandled into attending VBS his entire life. If anybody has a good excuse for avoiding VBS it is Joel Rogers.
2) Joel is one of several adult males who volunteer to sacrifice their time to bless our kids. It is not uncommon for VBS to be primarily led by women. Although VBS would't function without the essential role on women, it is always good to have an excellent example of strong, spiritual, male leadership.Joel Rogers and son |
3) Joel is Darla Roger's husband (see Darla below). He and Darla have served our preschool as partners in ministry for a long time. They have provided calm stability and dependable leadership to an essential part of the church - preschool.
My favorite story about Joel this week occurred on the very first night of VBS. A little first grade boy suffering from debilitating shyness and separation anxiety (from his mom) was brought to Joel's Japanese Spies spy training group. I explained the complexity of this little guy who didn't want to stay and was in the verge of tears. Tears are an effective strategy in parental manipulation. Joel, with a black belt tied around his head and a fake black polyester mustached glued to his lip, bent over and barked to this little dude (with a thick Japanese accent). "Welcome to Dojo!" The little guy followed Joel to the group and never looked back. Later that day he flinched threatened me with a Karate chop. All was well. This shy spy was being trained well!
Darla Rogers VBS Preschool Leader |
I am so thankful for Darla!
Many don't know but Darla recently lost her father pre-maturely to cancer. She is still grieving this tremendous loss. Still, as before, she saw the need, she knew she could fill it at VBS, and she served VBS volunteers kids with the same - behind the scenes, calm stability and dependable leadership that parents love and expect.
Agent Zig Zag and Spy Academy CEO Agent Fluffypants |
1) Carol rewrote the entire script of the curriculum. Carol writes professionally for Lifeway Christian Resources. In fact, she has written VBS curriculum for Lifeway. No one asked her to do this. Carol intuitively saw how the opening and closing assemblies could be more properly targeted to our young spy audience so she began writing. The new script was spot on, humorous, and engaging. Her gifts and abilities never cease to impress me. Carol is a volunteer like so many other volunteers. She serves with joy and giftedness. But that is no secret.
2) Carol has been through two of the most difficult weeks of her life. The past two weeks her parent's health faded fast and simultaneously (please keep them in your prayers). Carol's mom was diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer and has begun chemotherapy to shrink the cancer prior to surgery. Last week she had to rush her mom to the emergency room on the same day her father was have emergency gallbladder surgery. Each day, the week of VBS she left for work early, after work she would stop by her parent's house or the chemo clinic to check on her/him/them, and finally she would rush straight to New Beginnings Church to kick off the opening assembly which she scripted last week in her spare time. She remarked the week prior to VBS, "I'm looking forward to being in this skit with you." She amazes me. Spy Academy's Chief Inspector Madame Fluffy-pants was a hard hitting, no smiling, serious spy instructor. If you know Carol she was playing that part which was very foreign to her. She is funny and charming. But that is no secret either.
Secret #9 The Next Level Students are always a great help during VBS and this week was no exception. Next Level is a training program for selected high school students. It's like VBS for young adults except it is all summer long. They receive training and tackle assignments. They are learning to become a church who gives and leads. Kids look up to teenaged students (literally and figuratively). We can be thankful that the Next Level students are worthy of their admiration.
Secret #10 The New Beginnings Spy Academy was a huge success. A successful VBS is sum total of a church that invests in families + families that trust their church + volunteers that invest themselves + plus a Lord and Savior that makes all the time and effort worth it. Way to go Sankie Lynch! Your team has completed it's spy training and the mission is underway!
Dr. Phil Sallee, Pastor twitter.com/philsallee facebook.com/phil.sallee philsallee.info nbchurch.info nbfamilies.info |
Thursday, June 19, 2014
Love, Leadership and Teammork
Tim Elmore's blog below talks about the Leadership characteristics a professional Basketball player that has demonstrated through his love for his teammates, his love for others and how he is giving back to the community.
Finally—We Recognize the Other Side of Leadership
For years, we have read about national champions, most valuable players and top-level performers in every sport. Two years ago, the NBA chose to honor a different award winner — the best teammate. Shane Battier called it one of the biggest honors of his life.The Miami Heat forward was announced recently as the winner of the league’s Twyman-Stokes Teammate of the Year award, which recognized selfless play, leadership, work as a role model to other players, and commitment. The NBA will make a $25,000 donation to the Battier Take Charge Foundation, which raises money to help provide children with educational and leadership opportunities.
You should know that Battier was the runaway winner this year, being elected by votes from players who are not currently on his team. He showed up on over 200 ballots. Evidently, everyone sees these qualities in Shane.
Two Things I Love
I love two realities about this award. First, I love the fact that a professional organization like the NBA actually recognizes these attributes as worthy of affirmation, setting an example for boys who are glued to ESPN and the NBA. Second, I love the fact that the award connects leadership to something besides being the player who scores the most points. While I fully recognize we must measure points — it’s how games work — there will only be one player each year who scores the most. In fact, if that’s all that mattered, leadership could be viewed as a purely selfish thing: “Do-whatever-it-takes” to hog the ball and make the basket. Instead, Shane Battier demonstrated he could help his team win a championship this year by playing for something other than the most points, most rebounds, most free throws, etc. No doubt Shane buys into the statement by legendary Coach John Wooden: “The player who puts the ball through the hoop has ten hands.”
Battier said after receiving the award: “Although the guys in my locker room couldn’t cast any votes for me, I’d like to think they would’ve voted for me if they could,” Battier said. “I hope they know that I love them, and I appreciate them and in everything I do — I try to make that locker room better and this team better.”
Contrast this attitude with Allen Iverson, the NBA superstar who a few years ago said in an interview, “Practice? How can I make my teammates better by going to practice?” Ugh. Mr. Iverson, you still have so much to learn about leadership… and a lot of maturing to do.
Five Truths This Award Teaches Us About Leadership
- Leadership is about team progress, not personal statistics. The cliché is true: It’s about the name on the front of the jersey, not the back of it.
- Leadership is about doing the right thing when no one is watching, not just during a game or performance. Good leaders have pure motives.
- Leaders lose the right to be selfish. They see the bigger picture and focus on the whole. Their measuring gauge: Did I make my teammates better?
- Leadership begins with an attitude of service, sacrifice and passion. It is more caught than taught to others.
- Healthy leadership always adds value and is never toxic. It works like the tide on the ocean: As it rises, all the boats go up. Leaders improve team culture.
My hat’s off to Shane Battier and the NBA for this award. May this become part of the sports culture as we impart what it means to lead the next generation.
John 13:34-35